4 Things Every Man Should Know About Eye Contact Attraction
by Don Levert
Would you like to learn a few simple things that will increase your chances of attracting beautiful women?
If the answer is yes, read on...
1. The value of eye contact attraction
If you're like most men, when you're thinking about approaching an attractive woman, you're probably scratching your head, desperately trying to think of something to say. I'm willing to bet that you don't spend half as much time getting your body language right.
Take a minute to think about this and then consider the fact that words make up only 7% of human communication while the other 93% is body language. Your use of eye contact is a huge part of this.
2. What does it say about you?
When a woman makes eye contact with you, how do you respond? Do you immediately look away? Do you look down at the cigarette butts and chewing gum on the floor?
Take a moment to think back to the last time your eyes met those of a beautiful woman and how you responded. If you broke eye contact straight away and particularly if you looked down, you will have communicated to her that you are not a confident man and that you are of lower status than her.
Warning! Women are not attracted to men of lower status than themselves!
However, if you maintain eye contact, it shows that you are a confident man and are not intimidated by her.
3. What does it say about her?
Picture this, you have made eye contact with an attractive woman at the other end of the bar. You hold each other's gaze for two to three seconds. What does that say about her?
It says that she is either a woman with a degree of self-confidence (a very attractive trait in a woman) who is interested in finding out more about you. Or that she is sub-consciously giving in to your dominance. Either way,she is open to meeting you and puts you in a position of power.
4. Eye contact techniques to attract women
So, let's imagine it's Friday night, you're looking good, you're leaning on the bar, sipping on something cold and you spy a cute little blonde some 12 feet away and she's stirring her Malibu and lemonade with her straw. You gaze over at her, look her up and down and she looks up from her drink and meets your gaze. (Now remember to gaze, don't stare intently! That's for stalkers and you don't want to appear creepy). You hold eye contact for about 2 seconds, then you smile at her. She smiles back which you take as your cue to walk over and introduce yourself. "Hey, what are you smiling at?" you say in a confident, couldn't-care-less manner with a smirk on your face.
Congratulations, you have just effortlessly approached an attractive woman using eye contact.
You see how easy it can be?
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