Basics of Sex for Christian Husbands
by James Arness

You always learn in church to wait until marriage for sex. But what about when you get there and are about 10 years behind every other guy in experience and technique? Hey, I was there too, and let me tell you that there is nothing to worry about christian sex. I want to use the knowledge about Christian sexuality that I've acquired over the years about sex to catch you up...without being explicit or over spiritual.

 Now, I know that if you're reading this, you are either engaged or thinking about it. Awesome! That is a great place to start thinking about what is going to "go down." Sorry, I'm just trying to loosen you up, which is the first thing you need to do before reading about Christian sex tips.

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 Think about when you learned to drive a car, if you were stiff and nervous you were probably making jerky turns and stops. The same is true when approaching sex, especially Christian sexuality. The worst thing you could do for your wife is to be tense on your wedding night. In order to loosen up, you should go someplace in your mind that is joyful, peaceful, and exciting. Where could that be? How about the moment you realized you loved her?! Your emotions will carry over to hers; she is waiting for you to guide her into you first Christian sex experience together. Reassure yourself, and her, that this will be the beginning of a long and wonderful dynamic of your relationship.

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 As we have already covered, your wife is going to be waiting for you to lead her sexually. I am going to be very specific here. These are wonderful basic tips on Christian sexuality. Take her hand. Kiss her lips, cheek, and neck. Lead her to the bed. Tell her you love her. Tell her what she means to you and how much you have looked forward to this moment. Slow down and try to sense where she wants your hands to go by the way she holds her body. This is where it finally happens. Let go of everything else and start exploring. Trust me, by this point you have set up the moment to be PERFECT! Your first experience on honest, Christian sex will be explosive!

 Remember, sex is the most intricate action that we can commit. But it is also the most simple. Just let the nature that you were given take over. Hey, you're married! It's OK to dive into Christian sex head first. I hope this has helped you. If you feel that you would like additional, more in depth and technical tips on Christian sex, Click Here!

 

 About the Author
Jim loves to fish, play computer games, and collect bottles. He is very involved in charitable organizations. Jim and his wife Amy have an active, healthy, and intimate sex life. They also are supporting a new free website for information, insights, and discussions on Christian Sexuality. Check it out!