How To Pickup an African Woman  ...cont’d
 

Situational Compliments Pickups
African Women cherish subtle compliments. Don’t go for those high-sounding superlatives like “Oh! you are the most beautiful woman I ever met”, or, “I will die if you don’t dance with me”. Gosh! Don’t run her off with your holiest of all attempts. Compliment her on her dress, her dance skill, her conversational skill, etc.. No attempt at no-funny wisecracks, or stale jokes.

Self Confidence
It sometimes can be magical how that trust and belief in your ability to converse with women could be a special allure for some African Women. In a way, this helps you gain stature. It’s like you stopped to look fear in the face, and fear blinked. They know this is an obvious attempt to pick them up with your funny joke and swagger, but they like it.

A note of caution here. Don’t parade yourself with arrogance and brazen braggadocio. Temper your approach with funny quips and self-jokes - goes a long way to cooling down tension and heat (if you know what I mean).

Walk-up Pickups
Allied to the self-confidence approach is the walk up approach, whereby you introduce yourself the ol’ fashion way. Relax and compose yourself . Show some humility because a lot of women are very sentimental.

I am sure that there are more ways to pick up an African woman that has not been touched on here. Some are very old fashioned and non-contemporary. I will discuss these and others later.

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