The Crossword Puzzle of Relationships
 

You must communicate. There simply is no alternative to this one. No matter what the subject at hand, you have to take the time to sit down and discuss everything you can possibly come up with that pertains to the topic.

 If you're planning to move in with each other, you have to discuss things like timeframe, who is moving where, whether or not you'll need a bigger space to live in (which could determine whether or not you live in your current space), and whether you're splitting bills directly down the middle. If you don't discuss these things, they'll all end up putting you in a mass of confusion by the time you actually do move in together. And that makes for a messy breakup ... period.

You must cooperate. A relationship is built on teamwork.  It's not a solitary activity. You've probably heard the old
adage, "No man is an island," and it's certainly true for
any relationship. You can't do it alone ... you'll probably
need help, whether it's hired help or the help of friends
and/or family.

 The best thing for you two to do is to sit down and discuss (uh-hum ... communicate) the options. Figure out what you're planning together. Your vision must be a common one, else it won't manifest. Cooperation also means compromise. Both of you can't always have everything
your way ... you have to be willing to give in to the other
sometimes.

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